Maxou
Mobile:
Mommy
words
of
caution.
MOMMY’S
WORDS
OF
CAUTION
: Independent
mobility
is
new
for
some
of
our
kids,
so
don’t
be
surprised
by
your
emotions—I
considered
Max’s
first
“drive”
as
his
first
steps
and
was
a
little
shocked
not
only
at
how
happy
and
proud
of
him
I
was,
but
also
at
how
hard
it
suddenly
hit
home
that
he
was,
and
will
remain,
chair-bound
(I
hate
the
words
“confined”
and
“bound”,
but
can’t
find
others).
However,
the
sheer
joy
and
mile-wide
smile
on
Max’s
face
soon
erased
those
feelings. Please don’t expect your child to “get it” right away, especially if you have younger kids. Max played around with the joystick for a couple of days, not really understanding that he was controlling his movement and not looking AT ALL where he was going (I think he gets that from me…)! Whenever he was obviously frustrated because the MM wasn’t moving, we would move it for him or take him out of it—no reason to turn it into a bad experience. It has now been a week and although he can’t always turn or back up like a pro, he does seem to understand that he controls the MM and makes a deliberate effort to go toward whatever catches his eye. |